Dry roast bansi rava in a Kadai on medium-low heat, stirring continuously for 4-5 minutes until evenly roasted. Make sure the rava does not brown at the bottom, and look for a golden color and nutty aroma for a perfectly roasted rava. Transfer the roasted rava to a plate and set it aside.Pre-roast the sooji or use store-bought roasted rava in advance to save time on busy mornings. Cook avarekalu with salt in boiling water until soft, then keep aside.Note: I used frozen avarekalu from the Indian store, so I boiled it for just 5 minutes. You can microwave it as well for convenience. Heat oil in a Kadai on medium heat. Add mustard seeds and jeera, and then let the mustard seeds crackle.
Then add split urad dal, one pinch of hing (asafoetida), curry leaves, green chili, and saute until the dals change color.
Next, add finely chopped onion and saute till it turns light brown.
Add boiled avarekai, turmeric powder, vangi bath powder, salt to taste, sugar (optional), and cook for 2-3 minutes till the raw smell of avarekalu goes away.
Add 1 ½ cups of water to the mixture and bring it to a boil. After the water comes to a boil, add roasted rava a little at a time and continuously stir using a wooden spatula to avoid lumps.Always follow a 1:3 ratio — for every 1 cup of rava, add 3 cups of water. Cook covered for about 2-3 mins on medium-low flame until the water is fully absorbed. Once done, add lime juice, coriander leaves, grated coconut, and a little homemade ghee and mix well. Remove from stove and serve hot.